What can you do
about your small breasts?

"I've been self conscious about my breasts ever since it was pointed out that they're differently sized, which I didn't notice. This site has made me feel better about my body in a few ways. I've been depressed... :( It makes me feel really ugly. I'm too embarrassed now to let anyone see them because I'm scared that they'll judge me about them. I've always known my breasts were small, I usually wear a 34A or maybe sometimes a B, but I was always grateful for them since I'm more on the athletic side. I swim a lot and they've never gotten in the way. Still, I hope that I can accept them for what they are soon. In the end, I hope every woman realizes that they were made the way they are for a reason. Every woman is different. This site has made me see that."

"I'm 20 years old. .. I'm naturally very slim, though my mother is a 38DD! My left breast is slightly higher on my ribcage than my right, though they are roughly the same size (32A). I've always been unhappy with my small breasts and felt that I'd been short changed... I didn't feel 'womanly'. Combined with your wonderful website, I'm well on the way to feeling better."

A 19-year old girl. "I think the distance between my breasts is too long and they are not full enough. So, I start to massage them every day to make it look better and at least to maintain good health for my breasts."

"19 years old - Asian. .. I am skinny. My bra size is between AA and A. Sometimes I am embarrassed because my breasts are small, almost flat. I convince myself that people love me for what I really am, not how my breasts look."

"I am a 21 year old white european who has always been quite active and slender. I have never been pregnant, and rarely wear a bra. My family does not get much in the way of sagging breasts- my mum is only a few inches lower then I am now, having had me and breastfed me for at least a year. Being a brit there is slightly less of a breast taboo so I have seen more natural breasts then many americans, and with my parents being quite hippyish and wandering around nude my body image was pretty good until the normal insecurities or teenagerhood were made worse by being bullied. I was a AA cup until about 15 when I sprouted up to a 34C within about 6 months. I was bullied badly over everything about me- mainly people saying I looked like a boy, which hit my fragile teenage self-esteem pretty hard. I still see myself as that skinny, stooping small breasted girl and the teasing I got left me with issues over my breasts until very recently, when I realised they are merely a small part of my figure as a whole and that I am VERY attractive to people. Please, I want to say to other young women who may be where I was- DON'T WORRY. Soon you will find someone who loves you and fancies you like mad."

My breasts have always been very small (AA cup), and even when I was pregnant I never made it out of an A cup I couldnt even buy a Maternity bra as they all start at a B cup. I have always been very self-conscious of my flat chest; I hated school communal showers, and even to this day wont change in a communal swimming pool changing room in case people think Im a freak.

I actually prefer my breasts now (as pictured) to pre pregnancy as they are bigger, squashier and more breast like, I can even buy an A cup now, which is fantastic I feel much more female and voluptuous and a whole new world of underwear shopping has opened up before me.

...I have considered having implants and decided against it beneath the worry and fear that I dont match up, is a belief that I shouldnt have to cut into and disfigure my own body to appear attractive to others, it is better to learn to accept myself and hope others will too.

"Hi. I'm turning 19 in 2 months. I'm considered skinny, at least on top; I'm fuller at bottom. ... I've never found the perfect bra. I used to be extremely unhappy with my breasts, for a really long time, because I thought they were too small and unattractive. I was even thinking about taking the pills, though I was not sexually active, because I heard breasts would grow because of the hormones. I'm happy that I did not. I'm learning to accept my breasts, and my body in general. It's unfortunate that our natural beauty is, too often, not appreciated, be it in the family or in the society. Thank you for your wonderful and empowering website."

"I am 18 years old. Never been pregnant. I am about average weight."

"I've been diagnosed with PCOS. I do tend to grow a small number of hairs around my areolas, which I pluck out. I always oscillate between liking my body and disliking it. This was helpful in spending more time liking my body than not. I've enjoyed having small breasts during various activities such as jogging and sleeping on my stomach; however I do tend to feel less sexy in general. I am fortunate enough to have a wonderful man in my life who loves me for who I am and tells me I am beautiful and sexy all the time."

"I am 19 years old, and I have never been pregnant. Last year I lost 20lbs and have gained 10 back since then, but the shape and size of my breasts have not changed drastically. Currently I wear a 34B. ... I have never been supremely happy about the size and shape of my breasts, but I've slowly become more accepting of them this past year."

"I'm a 21 year old with petite A cup breast. During my teens I hoped that summers would be the time that my breast would develope a little more . Later I realized that would never happen. At times I wish they were slightly bigger because I feel a little less womanly with my petite frame. Overall I'm pretty happy with my breast. They make be petite but I love their beautiful shape."

"I am 18 and have never been pregnant. I have always been small both in weight and height. I wear a 32A mostly. I am learning to love [my breasts] though and I love this site. There should definitely be more like it."

"I'm 25 years old, i live in Europe. I'm 170 cm tall, about 55kg which makes me pretty skinny. I have never been pregnant. I have very small breasts and never been to happy about that (left is slightly bigger then the other). I've always been very self confident and when I was about 15 I realized that my breasts won't grow anymore... so ever since I tried to make the best of what I have and to accept myself the way I am. It wasn't always easy. I never wear a bra, first, because I can't find the one that fits and second, now I got used to it :) not wearing one, I mean.
Would I like my boobs to be bigger? Yes, not too big though. But I would never go for a surgery, ever!"

"Age 19, average build and no pregnancies. Through high school I wore an A cup bra but my breasts didn't fill the cup until last year. I was always embarrassed of my small size. The influence of Hollywood's idealism made me feel inadequate, ashamed, and less of a woman. This site, along with my husband urging me to understand the different kinds of beauty we all posses gave me a much needed reality check."

"I think people should be proud with what they have. I wouldn't change a thing about my breasts. I like being able to go bra-less when I feel like it. I am a person small breasted and all. What's also cool is I don't have to worry about the awkwardness of guys staring at my chest. I love my small nipples. I have been called flat chested and skittle tits and never felt better because no matter what, people can't change the way I feel about them. If I could I'd go to a nude beach and let them be free."

Small breasts - WOMEN's worries

Note that I emphasized "WOMEN'S" in the title - it is women and girls who worry about having small breasts. They see many of their peers of fellow women having larger ones, and that (seemingly) makes them feel theirs are not up to par.

And, to tell you the truth, just seeing other women have large breasts is not the greatest factor behind this angst. The popular women's and teens' magazines have an enormous impact as to how women and girls view their own breasts.

You do well to stay away from those type magazines. Even if you consciously realize that the images they convey are fake, the images, the styles, and the general atmosphere of those magazines still affects your mind and your thinking.

Is it normal to have small breasts?

Yes. Small breasts ARE normal! Breast size varies within women—and it varies a lot. Measuring with bra cup sizes, some women have A or AA, some have letters such as G or H. A-cup breasts are certainly very normal and beautiful!

Are big breasts truly better or desirable?

Many women seem to think so (especially small-breasted gals), though not all. Interestingly, many large-breasted women wish they had small breasts, because large breasts bring with them a set of problems such as backache, breasts being on the way, men staring at them, people not taking these women seriously, etc. Some men also prefer big breasts; however men don't care about breast size NEARLY as much as women do.

Why do many people think big breasts are better? The question boils down to TWO factors. First of all, many women have supposedly "learned" that men care more about larger breasts than small ones. Secondly, some think that larger breasts are better for breastfeeding.

1. Do men like big breasts more than small ones?

We certainly recommend that women and men appreciate each other for what they are, not just for certain body parts. When you are considering marrying a person, many other factors weigh a lot more, such as do the two of you like each other's company, can you work together in taking care of the home & possible children, do you share similar interests and a similar worldview, etc.

But as long as the world continues with this craze of body appearance, you might be interested to know that NOT all men - not even most men - care about breast size per se.

We have received numerous comments FROM MEN over the years, noting that it is WOMEN who do the most fussing over breast size, not men. The general ideas in these letters we've received are:

Men - and especially TEEN BOYS - are very curious about breasts since they don't have them and haven't usually seen many.
Typically men are happy just with any pair of breasts their woman has.
Normal men seem to hate implants since they are so unnatural and hard. Men writing in here often comment on that fact.
Men often don't know anything about breast/nipple/areola anatomy, or comfort, or bras, or the breast changes any such topic. They're ignorant.
A woman who appears secure and confident is attractive - and vice versa.

Please also read the following excerpts from a long letter sent to us by a male:

Hi,

I'm a man who was really moved by your website all about breasts, and, particularly, the element of (the wide range of) "normal" breasts.

A seldom-mentioned reality of breasts, and of what men think about breasts, is that it is not mere "size" that makes someone's breasts appealing. Instead, the central determining factor about how a woman's breasts are seen and admired, is how sheeeeeeeee presents them to the world.

What if it is prominent insecurity, and not the size of your breasts, that men tend to shy away from? A very popular *solution* (cough, cough) for women is to opt for the most insecure breast-related thing they can do - get implants! You think implants made you more *secure* about your body? Well they didn't - they just confirmed for everyone how insecure you are.

Other women can't respond fast enough to clutch their schoolbooks, their file folders, or that too-often-present wrap-around vest to their outdoor display. Well stop it! - that insecurity is unattractive. The guy in front of you is going to pass you very soon, and perhaps even be out of your life forever after that moment, but the insecurity is going to keep walking right beside you.

Once again, why do women do all of this fussing over breast size?
~ John

2. What about my breastfeeding abilities?

First of all, if your breasts are small before pregnancy, chances are they will double (or even triple) their size during pregnancy. Then, when the mature milk comes in (a few days after giving birth), breasts become even larger. But even if they don't end up very large, there have been studies done that indicate that small breasts can produce milk in the exact same quantities as larger ones.

What differs is the storage capacity. Between feedings, the breasts continue making milk, and this milk is stored in the milk ducts within the breasts. Larger breasts have longer ducts, so they can store a larger quantity of milk between feedings. In practical terms it means that women with small breasts may need to nurse more often than women with large breasts.

Just keep in mind that the milk production itself does not obey breast size—it depends on the amount of milk glands, and women with small or large breasts usually have the same amount of glands.

Please see also our article Breast size and breastfeeding for more information.

Can I make my small breasts bigger?

Besides breast implants, there is no surefire method to increase breast size. We have explained the details of what affects the breast size, and what doesn't, on this page.

Dressing

Don't let small breasts keep you from feeling pretty. Don't buy into the fashion magazines' message! Small breasts are very pretty and feminine! There shouldn't be any reason to hide the fact that you have small breasts.

Study into dressing with your body type. One idea for girls with a small bustline is to wear shirts that have details or pockets at the bustline. Or, try layering: a tank top under a cardigan or button-down shirt. Another possibility yet is to wear lloaty, loose-fitting blouses (but without plunging necklines).

You can find quite a bit of dressing advice for small-busted women on the Internet, for example Dressing with a small chest and How to Dress to Flatter Your Small Bust. You can find more by searching in Google for "dressing small busted" or for "dress body type", or for "dress body shape".

Then don't forget the HAIR - it's the most single important part of feminine look, and you have LOTS of control over that. If you can afford it, go to some stylist that can give you advice on your hair style that would fit the shape of your FACE. Or, search for 'hairstyle shape face' in Google.

You might notice that other people won't pay nearly so much attention to your chest size as you do, anyway. Hopefully stop worrying about it too, and instead consider your small breasts to be BEAUTIFUL, because they are!

Visitor comments

The following comments are from various visitors to www.007b.com. 007 Breasts is not necessarily endorsing everything written in the comments. The comments and opinions below belong to the commenters who made them. The comments are posted here because they might further help and encourage men and women who visit this website; however 007 Breasts is NOT responsible for the comments nor for any loss or damage caused by reading them.

Thank you so much for this site! I'm 18 and have always thought I had small breasts. I've never hated them but I've never been particularly happy with them until I saw this gallery. I now realise beauty comes in all forms and just because I'm a cup size smaller than the next woman it does not mean I'm any less of a woman! Also seeing people with smaller breasts than mine, who are happy with their size has made me realise I can be happy too. I measure in at about 30C and wouldn't change that for the world!

Amy

Hi, I'm 26 years old, my breasts started forming when I was 9 and a half. My right boob is a size bigger than my left boob. I say those woman who have small breasts who are COMPLAINING about them should be THANKFUL they have small breasts.. Big ones are just a huge pain, shoulders, bra size and in the mind... a.k.a. a big headache. I'm so angry at my right boob that I want to just cut it off... I will NOT get a breasts reduction surgery done because I do NOT like how these supposed surgeons do the procedure... They make the breasts look even worse than what they did before, it would make me even more self-conscious about my breasts.

I wish I had the money to buy breasts reduction pills.. at least they would shrink in size overtime. Big boobs get much more sore and they feel like someone's trying to tear them off from the inside.. Again most women who have small breasts should be thankful they are NOT cursed with big boobs. Because of the size of my boobs, I have decided long ago not to have any children. I don't need them to get larger and stay that way.

I read that breast size fluctuates during the period, but if that's true then why has the size fluctuated before I even have my period?

I rather would have been a late bloomer and have stretch marks than have one boob a lot bigger then the other.

I don't know if I should or can comment on here (I was searching for bras for my better half). I just had to say something after reading what many girls with small breasts said as I find it amazing that they could be embarassed about them.
I personally find them extremely attractive and my girl would kill for them (she's a 40 H). Size doesn't matter in the slightest and all those with small breasts should thank their lucky stars.......... you won't have back problems with them (aka my girl)...... you can get away without wearing a bra in the hot weather......... and when you're older you won't have them hanging near your belly button.............. be pert be proud. We all want what we haven't got (Yes, I would like to be bigger). I'm not. I'm just me, and that's the way it will stay.......... so perk up you small breasted gorgeous girlies and be proud.

John

A NOTE to large-breasted ladies: I have purposely collected here comments from men who happen to like small breasts. This is in no way meant to suggest that most men prefer small-breasted women. The truth is, just like some men prefer blondes over brunettes and some like it just the opposite, even so, some men prefer small-breasted women and others prefer large-breasted. I cannot make any guesses on the percentages though.

Thank you so much for your website! I've cried a lot of times because I think that my breasts are too small. I've got a 70 D (Swiss Size) but I'm always thinking that it rather looks like an AA. Your website showed me that I'm not alone with this worries and after reading your page I'll give my best to accept myself the way I am. I think every woman should read your page to change their false thoughts about their looks.
Greetings

Angela

Hello. My name is Portia and of all the comments I've read, they've mostly been about small breasts and being worried if you'll ever find the right guy for you. Now I'm thirteen and I agree, we as girls and women worry emotionally about these things. I think it's natural because we all do it. Right now I'm a size 34B and I ALWAYS thought my breasts were tiny, until I read about the other women that worry. I thought I was alone. Like I'll never be able to impress anyone, but if in fact my breasts do grow any larger I would only use them for their purpose, to feed my future CHILD with my husband at my side. Together we can beat the media if we all just get used to mother nature. We weren't intended to look the same. Be happy if you even HAVE breasts. I know this one girl that gets made fun of because she looks more like a boy than anything and attemped suicide, thank God nothing happened. Our shapes will vary, nothing we can do unless you resort to some other means of taking care of it, which isn't really necessary. We have better things to worry about than this "disease of the mind". I wish faith to all of the rest of you, because I worry too. Let's take Hhollywood down!
XOXO - PJ (portia)
P.S. - men aren't perfect either! They hide their emotion and it tears them up more than us!

hi!
I'm 15 years old, weigh 51kg and am 164cm tall. My brasize is 36A. I want to say thank you for your site. My family are all very small breasted, so it is unlikely that my boobs will grow. I used to feel very self-conscious about it and had low self esteem partly because of it, but since I read some articles on your site, I feel so much better! :)
You've shown me that it's not a bad thing to be small in that area - at least they won't sag!! Haha :)

Thank you again, you've given me so much more confidence.

T-T x

I'm 15. Well I'm so gratefull to find this site, I've been so worried about the size of my beast. I fit into a 38 B but my breasts look like the ones in the small breast selection. The thing is I have been overweight my entire life, I'm very overweight but yet I still have small breast. Is there something wrong with me? I should be having large breasts if they are mostly made of fat. Is it a lack of estrogen or a hormonal imbalance? I also have bad stretch marks on them but they are small and havent really grown! please help me!!!

Nothing is necessarily wrong with your breasts or your hormones. (If you had a hormonal imbalance, you'd have other symptoms especially with your menstruation).

It's true, when you are overweight, your breasts are larger than if you weren't. So... in your case it means that if you were normal weight, you would have very small breasts.

This is nothing "abnormal" though. Many women have small breasts, as you can know from reading this page.

I would like all folk with small breasts to know that many of us really really like small breasts and don't like anything else. There is a great variety in what people like.
Main thing is you are satisfied with what you have.
The money is in changing what you have, to do this is to start on the uphill path to unhappiness.
Please, those folk with small breasts or flat chest, you look so good.

merlin geikie

Honestly I have no clue what size my boobs really are. I wear a padded bra but I think their a 32 A. According to my dad I should get a boob job, he says this is a joking manner quite funny, isn't he? There are days that I am fine with my small boobs but then I chance upon something that makes that thought go off in my head. It says you're ugly and not normal and this society is absolutely bonkers about breasts, therefore you'll never be attractive no matter what. My mother is a 36C so I have no clue what happened to me. I'm 21 and can let that old hope die at last. But there are days when I tell myself that I have a good hip-to-waist ratio and there are many things that make someone attractive. I'm trying to be okay with myself. Kuddoes to you for making a great web enpowering. Women have to once again stand up and demand that they be respected, stop degrading themselves, and stop playing my men's rules. I'm not a man hater, to the contrary, but I think that a person ought to be assertive and demand respect.

andie

I have always had a small chest. I am 20 years old, about 5 ft 8 and weigh 135. I am a 36 A and have pretty much always hated it. I even tried those herbal supplements. Waste of 300$. However, I have debated on and off with surgery, but my final answer is no. My reason is that someday (in the distant future) I want to have kids. And what kind of message would that send them? Oh, you are beautiful the way you are sweetie, but mommy needed a little nip/tuck.... Even in my head that scenario sounds stupid and shameful.
It is difficult sometimes to find bras that fit well, and sometimes it sucks to go bra shopping. Especially since most of my friends happen to be curvy. But I keep telling myself that I am beautiful (which raises a few eyebrows from the dressing rooms next to me, I'm sure) and I hope I will actually believe it someday.

anna

I found this good website by chance. All I want to tell is starting from boyhood, men are only "curious" about breasts, as they have never seen or had them. They are "bothered" only about the size of their penis and the time taken to ejaculate. "Size" of breast is third on their priority, and that too goes in air, once they see or touch them!

Satinder

I never knew such an amazing site existed. I wish I had found out about it earlier. I'm going through an extremely insecure phase because the guy I love says he has no problem with my small breasts, (I'm 26 and wear a 28a and am quite skinny and tall), but he loves seeing me in sexy lingerie but its so tough to find sexy bras for my size, and I feel so insecure about this. All my life everyone's made fun of me being so flat, but for once I wish I had a bigger size if only to wear sexy bras. Reading about so many women just like me, I am so happy that I'm not a freak or oddball. I thought I was one among a handful of women who had tiny breasts, but now I know I'm not alone. Thanks.

Fleur

I am a 27 year old male, who is dating a wonderful woman who happens to be petite and smallish on top. She had asked one time how I could be drawn to her top, since she was so small. I told her the truth. I'm not attracted to HER because of THEM. I'm attracted to THEM just because they are part of HER. I wouldn't have her any other way.

Your good guy isn't drawn to you for your figure, but your figure becomes the best to him, simply because you have it.

Anonymous boyfriend

Hi, found your site from a friend who posted it on Facebook.
For starters, kudos on a good job. As an artist, I've come to appreciate ALL shapes and types of body. For me, the "perfect body" just isn't interesting. I'm more about the "REAL body", which is what all women should strive for. Don't try to be something to fit someone else's ideals. Be the best YOU that you can be, and that confidence will show to everyone around you.

Secondly, and I'm not the only male by far to agree to this, we'd rather see breasts that are "naturally small" than "artificially large". If you have small breasts, be proud of them. They're part of you. Don't subscribe to the degrading fad that is breast enhancements. They're not entirely safe, and for the most part, it just shows a lack of self-confidence.

Ladies, be happy with YOU, and the rest will come naturally.

thanks,
brandon

I'd like to mention that many men like myself love smaller breasts. My wife is 32A/B and I think her bust is just perfect! Smaller-chested women like Natalie Portman, Keira Knightley and Tara Fitzgerald have millions of admirers, don't forget.

Bill

I have small breasts and I have had low self-esteem for myself for years because of it, but now I realize that women with small breasts can be very sexy too. If someone cares about you then they should care about you for who you are and not what you have or look like, being a good person and having a loving heart is worth more than any size of breast. And now I'm not worried about mine and theri size anymore!

Rachel

My last Girlfriend before my marriage was a 46F !!!
My wife of many years was a 32AAA !!!
My current Girlfriend is "somewhere in between" [that's her business] ;]
Girls, I assure you IT DOESN'T matter !!! [at least to me]
Any REAL man will love the person behind them MORE than he loves them, and he will love them no matter what size !!!
Thank all of you, for being self-confident enough to show your pics !!! ALL of them are beautiful !!!!!

:]

Hi you all, Your website is fantastic, informative and very well built.
I am 32 and quite petite and it took me a long-long journey to finally accept and like who I am.
I've hated, tortured and abused my own body for almost 2 decades (in ways such as anorexia etc.). I used to call myself names such as "deformed", "hermaphrodite", "gender-less", "freak of nature", "beast", "monster" and so on... I'm so happy this war with myself is over now...
Now I am finally starting to love who I am and, by the way, in regards to my figure, I looooooove my flat chest!!! I am size 32A and I really believe it looks cute, pretty, attractive, firm, juvenile! And I just love going braless knowing I can be feminine without yet looking obscene, being able to actually feel the refreshing wind breeze through my summer tops at the same time!!! :-)

Victoria

I am a middle-aged man. I have always thought smaller breasts were prettier than bigger ones. I am dismayed at the thought that a woman would have surgery to create big fake boobs. Actresses who (apparently) have done that just look less and less attractive as they expand.

All the men who encourage women not to think of their size, because really it doesn't matter, now these people are REAL MEN!!! RESPECT FOR ALL OF THEM!

Alexa

hi.
I've been worrying and thinking about my body for a while now and I have a few questions. I am 16. nearly 17. And I am only a 12B and occasonally a very small C. (which isnt often) [Australian sizes]. It's come to my attention that my breasts have not changed since I was 15.

All the women in my family (mother, grandmothers, aunties) are all DD or larger. So it doesn't make sense to me that I am so small. Will I grow more?

I have been VERY into sport and dance my whole life and I'm quite thin. Has this affected my growth?
I feel quite uncomfortable that I am so small, as some clothes don't look good on me. My boyfriend has also made comments that I am small chested and that I should consider going on the pill to get bigger.

I'm just confused and hoping I will grow more even though I am nearly 17. Thanks heaps.

Have you read our page about small breasts? It has lots of good reading and advice for you. Just remember: you are normal, and you can be HAPPY about your small breasts. You don't "need" to grow large breasts or get them by some other means.

Your boyfriend's advice is not the best. You should be accepted as you are, and even more so realizing that you ARE indeed very normal and pretty.

Sports and dance can keep your body thin overall, so your breasts will also have less fat than if you didn't exercise a lot. If you stop the sports and gain weight, then likely you'll get some more fat in your breasts too, and they'll be a bit fuller/rounder.

Hope this helps!
Sincerely,
Maria Miller

Hi my name is Rebecca. My breast are almost a B and I'm 20 years old. I'm not fat by any means nor am I skinny. I love to eat but I fill up real quick so I don't eat that much. My mom has DD and even my sister has DD. For me this doesn't really bother me because mine don't sag at ALL and theirs... well gravity can work against theirs more. I used to hate them for being small but soon enjoy them for not giving me back pain or trying to "pop" out of my bra when running, this has happened to my sister before. Not many people realize that there are just as many benefits having small boobs than big.

Rebecca

Ladies, believe it or not, there are men out there, myself included, who find smaller breast far, far more desirable than larger ones. The visual media, of course, always needs things bigger. But I'll take smaller any day!

Ken

I'm a 23 year old male, and I definetely prefer smaller breasts. I am sad to hear about females deciding to get implants when that puts them medically at risk.

Masa

I actually PREFER small breasts. Guess I shouldn't admit it but it is true. It makes me sad when women get implants. I am sad that one more woman has gotten caught up in the myth that size matters. And truthfully, it diminishes my opinion of that woman because smart women don't really do that.

Sam

Hi, LOVE the site!!! Just wish I had it when I was much younger, I am 40yr old woman, I breast fed all my 6 children to approx. 1 yr old but my breasts always go back to being AA cup. I have used various padded bras and inserts over the years but thanks to your site that I first came across a couple of years ago I am much more confident and happy with my appearance now than ever before.

Mainly I want to say to any woman considering breast implants due to small breasts to firstly stop wearing padded bras, get rid off all that gel/water/air filled nonsense! At first it will seem strange almost as if you are walking about naked but after a while that passes and in return you will feel more relaxed with your body. For me I always thought bigger breasts would make me feel more sexy and womanly but actually loving what you have is what makes you feel that way.

My small breasts that I now love actually make me feel sexier!!!

All the padded, push up stuff just deflates you when you have to take it off, it reinforces negative feelings and is less appealing to men, I believe. Think how you would feel if you dated a guy who padded out his trousers? You would want to reassure him that there is no need to, that you liked him anyhow, but after a while if he continued in this self-loathing frame of mind you would probably find it unappealing and certainly not sexy!!

So, thank you! Thank you for common sense in a world of maddness and for showing me how to allow myself to feel great just the way I am.

Chrissie

We all have our insecurities. For some men it's the penis or maybe that not all have a Schwartzenegger physique.

Take heart, you ladies who are lesser endowed. Some gentlemen actually prefer the smaller breasted woman who is confident and dresses modestly. There is far more to the female gender than a set of mammaries.

I have spoken with a number of ladies who are "blessed" and their responses weren't all that it's made out to be. Most who were overly laden with bosom mass have complaints of health issues like back/neck/shoulder strain and the issues which arise from improper posture.

Others who are moderate to fuller filled have made word it is found irritating for a man to hold a conversation with their chest instead of looking them in the eyes.

Lastly, please disregard the idealism of augmentation (implants). Why spend thousands of dollars on something that could be detrimental to sound physical condition, only to boost insecurity?

These are a few mind meandorings to ponder for those who question inadequacies.

In the long haul, I feel it best to appreciate what you do have and enjoy the sensations that area offers. Count your blessings if you make it through life and never experience a mastectomy (single or double).

Mike

I also have small breasts, but after reading your articles it has given me a reason to smile because after all, it's no big problem. Thanks so much

QUEENZIE BRAIN

As someone else said, I wish I could wave a magic wand to make those aren't, confident.

To all you teens out there, don't feel like you're not normal because you have whatever breasts you have; there's much more to you than that, and you'll find out there are lots of guys that will appreciate many more things about you than the size of your chest.

Most guys care about the depth and quality of a woman's personality; breast size is pretty much meaningless. Do your best to be happy as you are because it's very likely that any one of you is the answer to some guy's hopes and dreams.

ed

I am 16 years old, going on 17 and wear size 32A sometimes 34A or 32B, depending on the type bra. I am quite smaller on the top and have big hips. Personally I think that small breasts are WAY more attractive than bigger breasts. Ladies, your boobs are beautiful no matter the size. I think that we shouldn't be obsessing about trying to change the way we were made when there is absolutely nothing wrong with us. I am so satisfied and proud of my sexy small boobs and I have realised that most guys don't care. Just love yourselves and feel sexy and you will be.

Deesh

I would like to thank the creator of this site for providing a place for women to talk about their breast issues. I am 19 years old and naturally petite. My breasts do not entirely fit a 32A bra. I have been a trombone player the majority of my life. Not many girls in my town play trombone or are as passionate about it as I am. As a result, many people believe that I am gay, and they use my breast size to validate my sexuality. I dress comfortably when I play but not overly masculine (i.e. fitted t-shirts and jeans). Outside of band rehearsals, I dress more femininely. I am not gay but I believe it is a terrible stereotype to associate small breasts with gay women. I have seen gay women who are very curvy and have full breats. I would like to know if anyone else has dealt with a similar problem.

Felicia

I suspect you ladies have the same breast insecurity issues that men have regarding penis size. As a lifelong admirer of female beauty I can assure you that breast size is not an issue whatsoever to many men. Of course there are men that fixate on breasts, but honestly breast size is the absolute last criteria for me and for many men. We like girls! Every girl has her own terrific assets. You ladies with small breasts will be the envy of your friends when you get older. You won't have the gravity issue to deal with quite so much. If you gain a few pounds as you age your breasts will naturally fill out a bit. Revel in your superiority. You can participate in physical activity that big breasted women cannot. If a man cannot see past your breasts he is not worthy of consideration as a mate. Cheer up girls, your problem is more in your head than on your chest.

Russ

Myself I like small breast. Wish woman won't worry about how big or small their breast is.

scooter

Breast size does not matter. It is the whole package. My wife has small breasts and I have had to put up with guys hitting on her ever since I have known her. Just last year, a guy 17 years younger than her, tried to ask her out. When she gives in and does not wear a bra with outfits where bra straps would show, men obviously stare and want to see her breasts just as much as if they were the artificial balloon types. I hate to tell you this, but the size does not matter as much as the thrill of actually thinking that you may be able to catch a peek. There are guys who may make comments to you, but usually this is because they are compensating for their lack of brain size or other shortcomings.

R.E.

I'm an Asian guy. I don't think the girls have to worry if they have small breasts and they should be happy with what they have got. I like girls with small & huge breasts and it does not matter as long as the girl has breasts. I find that European girls' breasts are very cute even if they are small or big. All the girls' pictures on this forum I love it and I don't think you people should be depressed about what you have got.

Irsh

In my experiece ALL guys are far more interested in shape than size. I'm aware that I'm provoking other insecurities here, but it's true.

I'm quite a shy guy, and when I was reading up on shyness I discovered in a report that introversion is proportional to breast size preference- so I'm betting that this ridiculous idea that guys like bigger chests is all down to the fact that extroverts spread about their opinions much more. The opinions and preferences of more introverted or more shy men are not taken into account- and this quieter demographic absolutely LOVE small breasts.

I'm extremely shy myself, and I can whole-heartedly say that personally the smaller the better :-)

Josh

I am one of the guys who loves small breasts very much. I love size A and AA the most since I love small and tiny things. The biggest I like is size B. The reason for this is that many women make their breasts much bigger with implants, which turn me off completely. I am not saying that all women who have huge breasts have fake ones, but I tend to believe it.

I hope that there are women who love their small breast size because there are guys who love small ones like myself. :) I believe that women who worry about their breast size do not have high self-esteem at all. They should be proud of their breast size and not worry about if a guy likes them or not. If the guy does not like them, they are not worth being with at all. Women who love to have small breasts are very proud of their breast size and have confidence in themselves!! :)

Michael

I am generally very happy with my body, and overall a confident person, however recently I've gone into a bit of a downward self-esteem spiral...focused, mainly, on my breasts. I am a 36A, and I do like the shape and look of my breasts, and have been told that they are lovely, but somehow that does not help in the least at the moment. It makes me wonder what is making me insecure? Is it the media, that I think I can ignore, because I don't believe in it, but that sinks in anyway? Is it other women? Is it a desire to impress men? For some reason, all of those seem wrong. First, if it were only the media, I would already feel better from reading comments here and having men tell me that my smaller/NORMAL size breasts are beautiful (it would be lovely for people to remember that A/B is a normal/average breast size for most women, not SMALL, as I constantly hear, and which doesn't help, even in well-meaning comments). I am not a very jealous person, and I cannot readily think of other women in my life whose breasts I envy, so that also seems wrong. Lastly, I am in a relationship with a man I love and who loves me, and my breasts, and my whole body for that matter. So no, I do not have a desire to impress other men. But I still feel (quite suddenly, I might add) incredibly insecure. And no, I am not PMSing :) Well, perhaps that was just a rant, I'm not expecting any answers, but I'm happy this site is here, so I can at least write my feelings out and send them out to a commiserative crowd!
unsicher

I am 16 1/2 and I started my period just about 3 years ago, and they are fairly regular now. I just barley fit into a 32A, but I feel like an AA cup is too small, or looks it anyway. I am a junior and I am not self-concious at all. but when it comes to my breasts and changing in the locker room it gets difficult. I am a runner, I do cross country in the fall, indoor track in the winter and outdoor track in the spring. i am not underweight, I am 5'3" and just about 120 lbs. my mom is a C-cup but are my small just because I run alot? some of my freinds who also do running year-round like me have C-cups and D-cups. I just feel left out, and different from everybody else, though I do not let anybody else see what I am feeling. my friend told me that she drank papaya and honey milk shakes for a week and she grew a cup size. so I guess my question is just. . . HELP! If I stop running will my breasts grow, I stop running during the summer they somewhat grow but no significant difference. I also get teased alot, and it's not fun. So I was just wondering if you could give me some advice. thankyou ~Sarah

Being active in sports keeps your body slender and slim. If you didn't run, you would probably be a little bit fatter overall, including your breasts. However, the difference is not necessarily very big.

You're probably just simply small-breasted, whether you were a runner or not.

Now, like I said, if you stop running altogether, you might gain a little bit of fat, including some fat in your breasts as well. But, keeping fit is healthy.

Anyway, small breasts are normal. Some women have larger ones, so that is why some of your running friends also can have larger breasts than you do. It's perfectly normal - there are variations in breast size among women, and LOTS of variations indeed.

I am a 19-year old male, and I think it's sad how there is a pressure on girls for bigger breasts. I personally am more attracted to petite girs with more small and shapely breasts. It's true that people love you for who you are and if a guy won't like you because of your breasts, you probably don't want him to. Just thought I would post my thoughts on this subject. I would rather have a girl with petite breasts than one with big breasts.

David

I have always had small breasts, about 34b. I enjoyed wearing T shirts with no bra, being able to run for a bus etc. My mum used to say, "If you don't wear a bra your bust will sag". I breastfed three children till the age of 1 year each. Whilst breast feeding my bust was a lot bigger and I missed that when I stopped. I considered surgery but looked at the pros and cons and decided against it. I am so glad I did. I am now 58 years I have very little sag on my bust and am very pleased with the shape. I can confirm that breast feeding does not automatically cause your breasts to sag and not wearing a bra does not lead to sagging breasts. In fact, I would say when you rely on a bra your bust is more likly to rely on the support and sag when this is removed. Thank you for your site.

sandra burns

I'm a 60+ year old man who loves a woman with small breasts... Please let your readers know there is an extremely large number of men all over the world who prefer a woman with very small breasts. I assure you the "large breasted woman preference" among many many men is not at all true. Please encourage your readers to appreciate what God gave them and not to seek to disfigure themselves with attempts to increase their breast size.

Shelley

I am 19 1/2 years old with a larger ribcage. Due to my ribcage, I am just too big for the 32-A bras. Therefore, I am a 34-A children's (not to be confused with junior's which is WAY too big for me). I can't begin to tell you the embarrassment that comes with shopping for bras and seeing a 10 year old wearing the same bra as me. At 5'5 1/2" and 125 lbs. I find it highly annoying that everything that fits my bust is too small for my ribcage and vice versa. I often have to personally tailor my clothing just so I have something to wear. One of my breasts is even a full cup size smaller then the other, which makes finding a comfy bra nearly impossible. However, with all that said, I enjoy my small breasts because they just don't get in the way like the larger ones do. At times I find myself wishing I had more just so clothing would fit better, or they took on a more attractive shape. However, I like myself for who I am and view breast augmentations as silly. This is how I was born, why should I change who I am for a size obsessed culture?

Morgan

I have small breasts, slightly less than an A cup. Seriously though, I am SHOCKED at how unhappy so many of you are with your breasts! It is quite ridiculous. Life is short and should not be taken up being depressed about thinking you don't have men staring down your shirt.

Look through the comments on the small, medium and large breast sections here. Notice there are SO many men raving about loving small breasts.

Stella

You girls still have a handful and mouthful so none of it is wasted. I think they're fantastic so don't be ashamed.

oldgrandpa

I really liked this website and all this reactions from young and old girls. But sadly I have a small boobs too and I can't be proud of them. Especially I just get married last month and I am very shy in front of my husband. I can't even turn the light on if he was with me and if he asked me why, I tell him u can turn it on but I'm gonna use the cover. It's really bad feeling ... I have a great body except my boobs ... I already asked my mom about that even she has a big boobs and my aunts too, every woman in my family have good boobs except me, why? And when I [was] searching on the net I found that maybe I [am] missing some "estrogen", so I started to think what about if I visit my doctor and ask him to give me some medicines wich contain estrogen. But I don't know if it's a good idea or not ??

Sondrion

Hi Sondrion,

Those estrogen pills wouldn't be a good idea at all. First, they increase your breast cancer risk. Second, they would give you a horrible PMS (pre-menstrual syndrome) with its associated symptoms. There might be other side-effects as well that I am not aware of.

So it would definitely be dangerous.

I think you will be fine. Why not try candlelight and covers first - but don't be afraid if the cover just falls off or something . Quite likely your husband is JUST FINE with your breasts! Or, you never know, he might ADORE them!

As a 42 years of age male, I can say that as far as I am concerned it is the attitude of the woman that I find attractive. Not the size of her breasts, butt, or whatever. If she is comfortabel with who she is, then she is attractive. If you look like the Playmate of the Month and have the personality of a log, you are not attractive.

Lee

I'm gonna be blunt, I'm a 19-year old guy and I prefer women with smaller brests, and I'm sure I'm not the only one. You should be proud of what you have and feel confident in your body, there are many guys out there who will like you for both who you are and how you look.

Anim3Fr33K

GIRLS!!! STOP Pitying yourselves. I am a teenage boy. I'm 18. So you probably think that I like BIG HUGE BREASTS, but NO I like small breasts. Why? I don't know. I just DO. So girls don't fret. Boys will still like you. Don't change who you are.

Robert

It is really a shame what our society does to its members in terms of what its "standards" of beauty are. I would just like to let the women on this site know that there are more men out there that absolutely adore small breasts. Don't lose hope, we are out here. Ravel in your beauty !

Ray

I really hate my boobs and I don't think it is mainly because of the men I know, actually it has nothing at all to do with them. I have so many male best mates and a wonderful man and they haven't ever said anything bad.
What makes me feel worse are magazines and advertising, people referring to big breasted women as 'real women' (so you're saying I'm not a woman coz I've got small boobs?!?) and actually girls asking me if I have ever considered having a boob job!!!

This website is lovely and the comments are great. I really like the one about men pretending to like big boobs. That really cheered me up.

By the way, I'm 26 and have never been pregnant and there is no way my boobs will get bigger unfortunately x

abigail

Maybe it's because this is what girls looked like when I started getting interested in them, but I think the "small breasts" on this page are the most beautiful on your site. I think it's tragic that women are brainwashed into hating their breasts-while many men have preferences on body types, finding a mate is a package deal and even in locker room sessions I've never heard a man say he'd walked out of a relationship because he didn't like the appearance of his girlfriend's boobs! I used to work with a slender woman who was built like a model-she was so hot-and she was always lamenting her small breasts. I always wanted to tell her, "They're beautiful! You've got an incredible body!" I prefer small breasts. And I'm happily married to a woman with big breasts, so there you go.

Big Tex

Everyone (especially young people) feels the pressure of the "bigger is better" stereotype -- women with small breasts may feel somehow inferior or unattractive, and men who are attracted to small breasts may feel like their masculinity will be challenged if they don't tow the party line (women, you have no idea how much pressure men are under to conform to all manners of macho/masculine stereotypes). It's truly a case of The Emperor's New Clothes -- people hold widely varying views/opinions/desires in private, but in public you'd better agree with the assumed "truths" in your society, or else.

Trust me, a good percentage of men (and women) out there have *zero* problems with small breasts on a woman. The problem lays with living in a conformist social structure, not with your chest.

Big or small, own your chest with confidence. You'll be happier, and so will everyone else around you.

kevin

I am a 30 yr old woman with 2 kids. I think this web site is great for those small breasted woman out there. Me being one of them. Before I had children I had beautiful size 12B tits, now I don't even fit into an A cup. It has taken a while for me to adjust ( maybe because I was bigger, once upon a time) but I met a wonderful guy who loves me for who I am and supports me with all my decisions. And yes, I did think about surgery for a while, but natural I sooo much better. The only problem I face is that my nipples are rather large, not just when it's cold, so a padded bra does help a little, if I could find one that fits. Wearing the right clothes can also take the effect of the chest area as well. So to all those women out there who are a bit self-consious, keep on going with what you have. Surgery is not always the answer. My 12 yr old daughter has a bigger bust than me, so I get her hand me downs :) Keep smiling ladies, you are beautiful the way you are. xxx

tania

I am 24 years old mother. My breasts never developed past an A cup and after having a kid, they even sag a little. My self esteem has been through the floor for so long, I don't remember a time when I felt good about myself... especially knowing that my husband fancies C cups and larger. However, one thing I have to admit is that he's had women with large breasts in the past and still married me. Clearly, there isn't too much wrong (if anything) with small breasts and I am very pleased to have come across this site. It really did help boost my spirits.

Raquel

I completely agree with the other guys in here. Women who are confident with themselves are so much more beautiful than women who others may say are full chested. You are beautiful; don't change anything about yourselves. If someone dislikes you because of your cup size then they don't look deep enough to see who you really are. I have been dating my fiance for three years and she is only an A cup. I love the way she looks. Be confident and happy with what you are given. It makes you so much more beautiful than any pair of breasts can.

William

Hey, I stumbled on this page and I really appreciate it. I'm a 43 year old guy and I think it's time that (a) blokes should stop pretending they all "love big tits" ('cos they don't), and (b) girls should stop fussing that much about their breast size, because they really don't have to - see (a).
A lot of my friends happen to be female, we can talk freely about lots of male/female things, and whenever the "I hate to have small breasts" issue comes up, most of them are quite surprised when I say that I think small breasts are simply more beautiful - and that, apart from that, it is NOT the breasts that make a girl interesting/hot/whatever! (So no, it's not a cheap pickup line either :-)
And then again, we must also acknowledge that some girls want bigger breasts NOT because what men think of all that, but simply because that's what they
like to see when they look in the mirror... so what I'm saying is, what it all comes down to is YOU, what YOU like, okay?
Eric

A few years ago I was about seven months pregnent and barely an A [cup]. I was working as a cashier when some guy came up to my counter and began asking the usual pregnant questions... when is due etc... he said his girlfriend just had his baby. Then asked if I was planning to breast feed. When I proudly answered yes, he rolled his eyes started to walk away and said, "Well, I guess do what you can." I sat there speechless unable to retaliate. I seem to receive a rude comment like this at least every month even now four years later and a 34c. My husband who is a big fan of big breasts can't get enough of mine and does not want me to go under the knife, says there's nothing wrong with the ones I've got. I'm 5'9, 157 lbs and am still too self-conscious about my breasts because they are disproportionate. My son gave me bigger breast but an even larger rear. I still live my life to the fullest and thank God for ALL my gifts!

sassy sista

I want to congratulate all the ladies who are comfortable with their breasts. I am 5'2, weigh 135 and wear a 38F. I have always been ashamed of my breasts. When I go bra shopping I get so frustrated and cry my way out of the store. When I was pregnant my size increased dramatically, and the bra shopping only got worse. My fanastic husband has been a great support for me, helping me shop and being a shoulder to cry on. When I came to him and told him I wanted a breast reduction, he completly understood. I have yet to get it done because I am pumping (not breast feeding) because my areolas and nipples are so large my children have never been able to latch on. To all the ladies questioning your small breasts, be thankful you can find a bra if in fact you need one, and that you don't have any physical pain. Just because some of us have large breasts does NOT mean we enjoy them!!

Kristie

I am going to be 15 this month in April and a freshman in high school. In the year of 2007, of the beginning of high school, I started my period. Since I kind of started my period late is that maybe a reason why my breasts are so small and I am basically flat chested? My breast size is a 32A and it's been that size since 7th grade. I just wanted to know what your reasons were on this and if you could help me understand that if I will develop soon or what. Also, I did competive gymnastics for awhile which was very intense and I was wondering if that could be another reason why I am not as developed as many girls younger and older than I am. I mean, I see girls at the age of 12 who are a B or C cup size in bras.

Audrey

It sounds like your body is doing just fine. Gymnastics and heavy exercising can delay the start of puberty, plus it can keep breasts smaller simply because your body would have less fat (be very slim/trim).

But A-cup breasts are normal. There are many women with small breasts and it's just fine. They have normal breasts.

Now, that said, yours MAY still grow bigger!

(42 year old male) There is nothing unattractive about petite breasts and if that's what you have you shouldn't worry. Only immature men consider this important. Implants feel unnatural, are obvious a mile away, and indicate insecurity. Any man that pressures you to consider getting implants you should consider doing without.

JD

I'm a 19-year old male and I would just like to leave a quick comment about breast size. As one visitor already said only shallow men care about the size of your breasts and go for women on that fact alone!! But just to put the mind at ease for all your lovely ladies that don't have big breasts---some men prefer smaller breasts. I know I do:)

BE CONFIDENT, BE YOURSELF :]

Sean

Hey Ladies! I am 22, weigh 98 lbs and am 5'7. And I too have small breasts. I barely fill a size 36A! But I had to share that I recently dated a man who was in love with my small breasts. He always wanted to see and touch or play with them even tho I have barely-there breasts. I got so comfortable with myself because of my relationship with this guy. I have a small amount of cleavage but I actually like my breasts they're perky, small areolas, firm and almost never jiggle, I can run and jump so sports are never a problem as with big breasts, and men actually look me in the eyes when they talk to me. The only thing I don't adore about my breasts is when I bend over they sort of resemble goat boobs. But no man has ever mentioned this. I'm sorry that most of you seem to dislike your bodies. Before him I felt just like most of you. My older sister got breasts at the age of 12 and soon was a 34DD so I was obsessed that boys would only date her. Now that she is older and had 2 kids, they are smaller than mine and saggy and a bit lop-sided. Now I love my breasts and never feel embarrassed. I know it seems incomprehensible but men REALLY don't care how big or small they are, granted most have "types" you just need to be patient and hope to find the one guy that will never care about your body and Trust Me he is out there! Don't despair: Whenever you feel less than normal just make a mental list of all the things small breasts are great for. You'll be surprised how many you can come up with. (HINT: sports, perkiness, no back pain, going bra less, etc..)

Brandy

I MUCH prefer a woman to have an A or B cup breast over one having larger breasts. I DO NOT like silicone breasts at all.

mr Nitti

As a 46 year old man, it is heartbreaking to read so many women's descriptions of their dissatisfaction with their figures - including small breast size. I join the other men on this site in telling all the ladies that you don't know how beautiful you really are and that small breasts are very attractive. Please don't buy into the 'bigger is better' hype - it is not. And PLEASE don't get implants! They are hideous and we can easily tell they are false. I love my wife very much but the size of her breasts NEVER crossed my mind. I fell in love with her 12 yrs ago and we've been married for 10 and I love her for who she is- not what kind of bra she wears. Remember, God made women beautiful- you are beautiful!

Bob

This site is very useful and helpful, but I hope one day soon they will find a way to make your breasts bigger because my friend if a 32C going on to D and I am only 30AA and I feel really left out because all of my friends have big busts except me and they can wear really nice dresses and everything and I could wear a pancake!

Your site was intersting with the information and helped quite a lot!
THANKS!

Sam xx

I think they are all beautiful! I'm so surprised that so many women are dissatisfied with their breasts. Ladies, please believe me, they are all lovely.

Bob

I wanted to thank you for this website. I'm 21 and have a petite figure, which means petite breasts.I'm between a A and B cup and the most Ive weighed is 110. I'm 97 right now. I've gotten comments from both women ( with bigger boobs) and men about my small bust size. I've been insecure since I was a teen about my size. I even have a hard time taking off my bra during intimacy w. my fiancee sometimes. When ever it gets bad, I visit your site for reassurance and I always find it. Thank you so much, what you're doing is awesome. Now I feel confident once again.

Sue

It's just not true that all men love big breasts. Many like myself find AA and A cups the most attractive. Most guys I know actually care about personality than the girl's physical appearance. Anyways if a guy only worries about the size of your breasts he's probably shallow and doesn't have your best interests in mind. Don't worry about your breast size just live life to the fullest and don't let something like that hold you back.

Mark

I would just like to voice my opinion on the subject from a male point of view on breast size. I have always been more attracted to women with small breasts, usually AA,A, or a small B. It is usually thought that all men love big breasts, well it's not true.

Chris

I just want to say that I have always preferred small breasts to large ones! Don't assume that all men like big breasts because we don't! And the comments about being secure in yourself are right on ... being confident makes you more attractive, it's true. Be comfortable with yourself, define your own style, carry yourself with respect and don't worry too much about what other people think.

nick

Hi all that may well be concerned... although at such a delicate age you probally will not understand the flip side of your embarrasment... some guys, boys, men, love small breasts, me being one. Beautiful to match ones body... personally big boobs really turn me off and I find them intrusive and ugly.... Please don't worry you're a teenager only once. Don't waste it on trivia. Believe me, I did obsess with the size of my penis.. watching everyone else in my year getting mans bits and my maggot just doing nothing fast...still hasn't and now I'm 30-ish, but size isn't the be all and end all... rob

While surfing the internet I came across the site, I was amazed at how many women have small breast (like myself). I use to be so insecure of myself because of that. As I grew older it really didn't matter what people thought of my small breast(guys would always tease me about them). NOW I realize that I am sooooo sexy with my small breast and everybody wasn't meant to a DD. So ladies hold your head up high and let the world know how proud you are of yourself.

Terina

I never thought my small breasts were a real issue because I think one should respect oneself and one's own body.
But I had a rather unpleasant experience which made me doubt this, doubt myself for that matter, and it made me extremely self-conscious person. When I asked the only person I was ever intimate with why he really decided to end it all, he said that I was not 'feminine' enough for him, despite me being a nice person and all. Not only did he say that to me, but he made those comments to our friends and to his new girlfriend (who sports large breasts).
Even though I deeply appreciate all the things you wrote here, I cannot help but think that they are just words and that nothing will really change for me in the future.
I really had feelings for that person, I still do (someone needs a therapy, I know :)), and it's hard for me not to think that he would love me back if I was prettier, more womanly. I feel so deficient, and I constantly compare myself to other women for that reason.
He did apologize for saying those things, but I know that deep down this is the reason why he prefered to stay away. I know that we are all attracted by different things and he has a right to be attracted to someone else, but the very fact that he doesn't want to be with me for that reason is so humiliating. So how can I ever accept myself as a woman when I feel like a little girl who is lacking THE most important feature that distingushes our sex in today's society? It is really so painful to be rejected because of that. I wished so many times I was more 'womanly'. It's sad, I know, but I just cannot accept my body. In any case, thank you all for writing your comments. They helped a lot. But I still have a long way to go to build my self-esteem and to convince myself that these things don't matter, because they obviously matter a lot to some people. If you tell me that I should not care what such people think about me, it's easier said than done. I do care.

Tessa

Hi, I am male and I'd just like to assure all you smaller ladies that in fact I prefer women with smaller breasts; although wouldn't judge anyone by that criterion alone. I particularly don't like to see women with breast implants, it looks unnatural and unattractive. There's no need for anyone to do this to herself, you are just fine as you are.

Bob

What makes us girls feel like having small breasts is the end of the world? Where's the rule that says that your beauty totally depends on your breast size? I say embrace what you have been given. Once you've found the beauty in it, others will to. Love yourself, your whole self. Let your beauty flow from inside out, not the other way around.

Janice

Hi, I am a 19 yr old male. Breast size to the shallow men matters. There are real men out there who think that personality is the greatest aspect of a women, and want to be with someone for their love not their breast size. Some women's way of attraction will be with their body, and others will be their personality. Those ones that use their body will find they have men bouncing off them almost, as the men learn that a great body does not also mean a great personality. Women who think they are less attractive or are insecure about their appearance would have a different way of attraction, maybe a great sense of humour, kind, generous, caring etc. Ignore and avoid magazines and males that assume large breasts are better, you are a perfect and successful creation if you are alive.

Mark

I am 24 years-old and wear a size 32b or 34a. I am 4'10 and weigh 105lbs. Love my hips and legs (only wish they were longer) Mother of 2, which left me with excess skin when I lost all the baby weight. Married for 6 years and still able to turn my husband on everytime. He admires women with larger breasts, which at one time made me wish I was a c cup. I would never get implants to make him happy. I am happy with my breast size because it matches my height. If I had large breasts, I would look really funny and not portion. ... Women, all in all, just be proud of what God gives you.

Mimi

For the small breasted ladies out there, you are not alone. Only a guy not worth it would dump a lady because of the size of her breasts. Although my guy and I have decided not to have sex till our wedding night because of our belief, he loves and adores me even with my small breasts. So ladies, anyhow you are naturally, because you are God's creation, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL.
Amy

I love this site! It's really reassuring to know that not all women are created equal in the breast department and stuff like that. I used to be pretty embarrassed to lingerie shop with my mom because I am so small. Now I really am more self assured in my bra size(42AA), and I know what works for me.

My bff wants a reduction in her breasts, she's a double d and envious of mine! So smaller breast girls, take heart! Bigger is not always better. Think of the ladies who get back pain from having such big ones.

Bigger is not always better! Be proud of your natural shape! It's uniquely you and nobody else. :)

Laura

Hi, I am a 16 yr old girl. I began developing breasts quite late, and didn't really even fit 32AA until 9th grade. Now I wear a 32A cup, even though I don't quite fill it out. Having small breasts has always made me feel inadequate, immature, and like I'm about as attractive as a 12 yr old boy. I still haven't had a boyfriend yet, and I used to think that this was because I have next to nothing in the way of boobs. Now I still think that they don't really notice me because of my small chest, but more importantly, I wasn't noticed because of my lack of confidence. It just doesn't seem quite fair that girls younger than me have larger breasts than I do (shouldn't I get some, too?). Sure, having small breasts comes in handy when playing sports and running, but it would be nice to look good in dresses and shirts. My small chest has really affected the clothes I wear. The style now is low-cut and emphasizes cleavage, which kind of limits my wardrobe, because these low cut items look ridiculous on me and my practically flat chest. If I had breasts, I wouldn't let them hang out like so many other girls my age do, but it would be nice to at least fill out shirts and dresses. I have realized that at least I won't have to worry about guys liking me solely for my chest, and I can automatically accept that they like me for me, so that is good. Thanks to your site, I am slowly beginning to accept myself and see that cup size doesn't matter and small is beautiful, too! Thank you!
~small&pretty

Just a quick note. I've dated several women who were concerned about what I was going to think about their breasts and I've read several such examples here - I can tell you, not to be cute or crude, I've never seen a breast I didn't like. If I were you, I'd try not to worry. I know that's easier said than done, but you can trust me on this one - variety, as it were, is the spice of life, and a guy, if he really loves you, isn't going to care what the twins look like.

Good luck to you all,
Michael

I read in agony the stories of women ashamed of their small breasts. Please be aware that many of us men actually prefer small breasts and find them extremely attractive. Be proud of your body and if a man bases his attraction to you on your breast size; RUN!

David

I must say, that most women have been treated unfairly because of their bust. This is sometimes due to male arrogance. I am a guy of 19 years, at one point I preferred women with large busts, but some how I outgrew it. Then upon viewing this site, it was cemented in me that women have different size breasts. The Word of God tells us in Gen. 1 v 26, that we were made in His image and after His own likeness. So who are we to judge.

Men, don't judge based solely on what's outside, but check the inside as well.

WOMEN YOU ARE SPECIAL, NEVER FORGET THAT, WHETHER YOU HAVE AN 'A' CUP, 'B', 'C', 'D' OR ABOVE, YOU ALL ARE SPECIAL.
Ishmael

I'm sorry for the hurt that women with small breasts have experienced. You deserve to feel good about your body and to be surrounded by people who love you just as you are. Please try to ignore the ridiculous and contradictory messages our cultures give women on how we "should" look. As we can see from the various posts, people may have their preferences for what they find attractive, but preference does not mean one size is better than the other.

I would say, make having small breasts work to your advantage in whatever way you can. For example, if you have small breasts and like to go braless, enjoy the fact that you may have less social disapproval than someone like me(size DD)who does not wear bras. Remember that women with large breasts have problems too, and some of those problems affect health. We should be supporting each other, not competing against each other.

Most of all, I think we would benefit from being far less concerned about our breast size and far more concerned with whether our breasts are healthy. We give so much attention to superficial things when women are dying of breast cancer everyday. I care a lot more about my breast health than how big they are, whether they sag and what other people think about them. If they sag, so what? It's normal and at least they are lump and pain free.
Theresa

I'd like to have a say in this.

I'm an 18 year old guy. For one thing, I don't really care if a girl has a flat chest or big boobs. Most of my friends want a girl with big boobs, but I could really care less. I honestly go for more of what the girl is like and how she treats me. Yes, you wouldn't think that a guy would think like this, but some of us guys are like that.

TN

Some men think that to be someone you have to have large breasts, and even women think that they have to change there breasts size to be somebody. I heard a psychiatrist suggest that if you felt bad about your boobs to get implants and that would fix it. What happened to self-esteem or expecting a man to love you unconditionally? Or my personality which I work on so hard? Is this not important? Certainly, if I were to fix my appearance, breasts would not be the only thing I would have to fix. How about my face, my hair, my stomach, buttocks, my arms, legs, height or even my teeth? I sure would be spending a lot of money! and no love there.

anonymous

My breasts are a size DD. I have a small waist. But I honestly believe that all breasts are beautiful, be they large or small or saggy. The reason breasts are beautiful is because they belong to a woman and every woman is beautiful. Why don't we teach that every woman is beautiful no matter what size her breasts even if they're cup size A or cup size H!

Allison

I am a confident women with small breasts and I am not ashamed of my body, but today I was going to catch the bus and some men looked at me to my chest, and deliberately stared at a large breasted women to her chest, a women next to them, she was laughing, she did gestures with her hands and body, turning her face towards me as though to say: "I am so much better than you" I really did not care, because with the attitude of the men, I would never date a man like that, and she just wanted they're attention as to believe she was better, but still, I felt terribly bad for the next three hours. Women with large breast who want to feel important or valuable and don't find the means for such feelings, constantly compare themself with women who have small breast as though to say "I am better" when they are not, and they do that a lot. Men also compare women's body's as to say one is better than the other,(low class men, of course), but yet it hurts. I never compare myself to anyone because we are all human beings, and we are all important and valuable, but when someone does this it is very demeaning and the feeling is horrible, I just want to say that most people should not compare themselves to another, or compare one person with another. It is very comforting after an incident like this to read the articles of different men on this web site. Feedback ,please.

tata

im 17 years old, 4'10 and 88lbs (sounds awesome right) but I barely fit into a 32 A. I love my slender body but come on now...we all feel horrible about parts of our body sometimes. I have my confident days, and then my miserable days. I hate my breasts, and honestly I don't know if thats ever going to change. No matter how many guys have told me that the "shape" of my breasts are nice or that theyre "proportional" with my small body...it all just feels like an attempt to shut me up about it. And I know the media is hugely to blame for things like this...but what am I gonna do about it? ive already had it planted into my head by immature boys and the media that I look like a little boy. no matter how many nice things are said about small breasts or how much I shouldnt care...you try walking into the same room every day at school and being constantly referred to as looking like the wrong gender or looking like a little boy. I go out with my friends and when we meet guys I don't know they automatically think i'm someones little sister that got drug along. so whether im supposed to accept myself or not...if nobody else does its hard. On the other hand of course, I noticed a popular store (hollister) using a girl on their website with breasts similair to my size. Being such a popular and (sometimes rediculously) obsessed over store...its nice to see a small breasted girl being modeled. Even though im having a down day, this site helps, ive been here before, and ill probably be back again. whoever started this, thank you.

anonymous

To the 17yr old girl who is 4'10. At your age I was 4'11 and my weight was about 95pounds. I understand how you feel, maybe it would help if you wore clothers that made you feel more comftable around these people or if you read about how to dress in this site. Another thing that might help is for you to be strong at your decision that you are how you are and it does not matter what others think. Change your mind. Also, maybe you are hanging with people who will never aprove of you no matter what, it is important to be with people that make you feel comftable around.

anonymous

Hello, I am a 47 year old graduate student (after 15 years as a chef). I have always loved small breasts, maybe because my mother was rather small breasted (maybe Freud was right). Over the years I have been with a number of types, sizes, and races of women and while I hold nothing against a naturally well endowed lady, I have always preferred smaller breasts. I wish I could snap my fingers and give all women the self-confidence to accept thier breasts as being exactly the way God intended them to be. Hollywood and the plastic surgery industry seem to be most responsible for efforts to make women believe that men only like larger breasts. I have been with a few women who have had implants and I can tell you from personnal experience that implants DO NOT look of feel 'natural'.

Kevin

I would like to comment that unnatural breasts are a big turn off and that really big breasts are the same way. After reading your site and understanding more about the female anatomy, I understand that breasts aren't just sexual objects, but I do enjoy the smaller sized breasts. I find girls with them more attractive than if they had larger breasts. This is more of a personal preference. And most of my friends don't like the big breasts either.

Rich

I had an abusive boyfriend whom I did not know was abusive in the start of the relationship. I told him I was insecure about my small breasts, he in turn would literally stare at women with large breasts in public with me next to him, and then deny what he did. In one occasion, we were gathered all together and there was a girl with super large breasts, my ex-boyfriend and his brother where almost drooling over her breasts, while she was laughing. I felt inferior, degraded and disrespected among other feelings. I left this guy of course, but I still feel ashamed of what happened. I think one way to get back at him is to work on my self-esteem since really, nor him, his brother or the girl seem to be worth much. Can some men give me feedback?

Mary P.

You have hit the nail on the head with site. Breasts are and have been a natural part of being a woman. Breast size does not matter. As I man, a woman who feels comfortable about herself, is always attactive. You don't need tatoo's or enlarge your breast, be who you are and be proud of it. Small or large they are beautiful. I niece of mine has been very concerned about her breast size as she has been teased at school by her follow girls. My niece is 13 and I love what her mom said. "Do you want boys who love your boobs or you?" My niece thought about and then started to laugh, and said "I never thought about it that way." She is now is slowly becoming more confident about herself.

EJ

Unbeknownst to me, my mother opted to get breast implants soon after my sister and I had finished breast feeding. The surgeon did a spectacular job, and I hadn't the slightest idea they were fake until I hit about 15, looked down at my A cups and said "Mom, what!? These look nothing like your perfect 36Cs!" She informed me that my breasts were in fact BIGGER than hers had been at my age and that hers weren't real! I was horrified, but she assured me that my breasts are perfect-- "They're what you were born with, how can they be wrong?! Don't make the mistake I made!" she said. Several years later, her silicone implants burst and began to leak profusely, wreaking havoc throughout her system. Thanks to her, this website, the support of my fantastic man (who in fact PREFERS larger breasts, but just can't get enough of my tiny ones because well... they're MINE!) I have become a strong advocate of natural breasts, in all their various forms. I've even managed to convince a girl scheduled for consultation NOT to get implants. Keep up the good work here, and I'll do the same!

Meredith

Hi. I'm 17 years old and I have an extremely hard time finding a comfortable, fitting bra because I have a particularly small band size and tiny shoulders but a large cup size. I know many young people today are influenced by TV and advertisements, but in reality, big breasts aren't all that great. They're actually very difficult to deal with most of the time, and if you have a small figure like me, will get you lots of unwanted attention, even if you wear very modest clothes. To secure one's large breasts, one must either resort to painful underwire or deal with drooping sports bras that allow your breasts to fall on your stomach when you sit down - I have these problems and my breasts aren't even nearly as saggy as some of the pictures on your site. In short, the obsession with big breasts needs to stop. They're more a pain than a blessing, and size shouldn't matter in love or in childbearing. As long as it works, who cares?

I am 21 and I am also small breasted young lady, after all those comments now I feel more better, because before I didn't pay much attention to my breast sized since my first boyfriend told it to me, he was 32 and I was only 18 that time, I don't know what was the main reason we broke up (maybe because I am virgin and he didn't want to waste his time and energy on me) but when he left he just said that I should be more round at the bottom and have bigger breasts than I have... That was a biggest shame I ever had, the man I loved till death told things like that...
The time passes, and I am still kind of scary that my bf won't accept me as I am cause he doesn't know how small I am, maybe I should talk to him first instead, but how to begin the topic like that? (due to our culture we don't talk about sex and stuff like that before the marriage)... I would be really appreciate everybody for any advice...

leyla

Leyla: I believe the first guy that was your boyfriend did not love you because when you love you love a person the way the person is. The other guy, if he loves you, might not be even worried about your small breast size and if he is, consider getting someone else, till you find true love.

anonymous

Leyla, you should feel comfortable with the person that you are dating, and to feel accepted as well. If you think you can't talk to him about this matter, try talk therapy with a woman as a therapist. Communication if a very important key in a relationship.

anonymous

Hi, I am a guy and I think this website is excellent and there should be more like it. I absolutely hate breast implants or anything that shows that a woman is ashamed of her God-given body. Fake breast are no different than relying on makeup and great clothes to be accepted. Girls are more than just objects. Even if a girl has what I might think are the perfect breasts, she would have to have the personality since that's what really makes a person attractive. Only shallow people are attracted to shallow people. As far as Hollywood goes, they say not to associate yourself with harmful people so don't watch mainstream television and don't open the fashion magazines. They are there to harm your self image to get you to give your money away. Natural is IN. Any kind of "natural" is beautiful.

JJ

I love small breasts. As a teen, my father told me any many who doesn't like large breasts must be gay. I was dating a girl with small breasts at the time, and was offended. I later married a woman slender woman with very small breasts, and really loved them that way. Now divorced, I certainly don't choose my dates by their breast size but I have once again fallen in love with a small breasted woman. There are many comments here from men saying that confidence is more important than size. Of course this is true, but I wonder how many insecure women dismiss this as sidestepping the issue. Please believe that there are men who don't just love you as you are, but actually prize you for what you are. We really, honestly do love small breasts.

sam

I am a 50 year old man. If I could say one thing to all the women who are insecure about their breast sizes... Hollywood and the main stream media (msm) are mostly responsible for your anxiety. The beautiful large breasted women who they use in marketing most likely represent the breasts of their obese (overfed) mothers. The most important aspect of beautiful breasts to me is symmetry. As I examined these before and after photos I was struck with how many women wanted to increase cup size. Only a handful (my opinion) actually needed work. Those breast looked like cans or otherwise not like breasts.

I enjoy a woman who is confident in herself and smart enough to realize that her breast size is not what makes her a woman. I like small breasts. Don't let Hollywood or peer pressure influence you. If you're unhappy and you think increasing your boob size is going to make you happier you should probably get counseling.

Mr. G

I am a large chested female (36DD) and I believe that having small breast will not take away from the quality of breast feeding nor are they less sexy. Small breast are beautiful. Women are beautiful and come in all shapes, sizes, and colors and should be celebrated. To my small chested sisters, you and your breast are beautiful. Never be ashamed of them

Grace

I think the whole this is amusing actually, this whole obsession with breasts. It's a mind game that the US media plays on us making us think we have to be a certain way in order to fit in. Imagine this, what if...SMALLER BREASTS were the "in" thing. What if everywhere in the US media all we saw were small breasts? What if bras were taboo, and not wearing one made you sexy and chic? What if, in magazines and on TV, whenever breasts were emphasized, smaller was better? Would we have this implant craze? NO. We'd have a reduction craze. There would have never been an industry popping up around breast implants, and larger breasted women would be the ones made to "feel inferior". It is all pretty silly actually.

I myself have small breasts. Usually I don't think about them much at all. Occasionally I fall into the mind trap just like everyone else and my breasts take center stage. I was stuck in that trap this morning, hence the reason I am even at this sight. Sometimes I just need to be reminded that it really doesn't matter. Men and women, when the attraction is genuine, are attracted to each other for ALL SORTS of different reasons. Breast size doesn't really factor that heavily into the equation. So please remember, they are just titties ladies. Big small, weirdly shaped, or perfectly round they don't effect what kind of woman you are. Trouble is, it's hard to separate ourselves from this when we see boobies everywhere. But we should all be diligent and try to. If we did, then platic surgeons would have no market, and perhaps this whole silly craze would go away and we could all focus on more important things that really matter.

Jennifer

Ladies,

I wish I could with a magic wand give you the self-confidence you need. I am married to a wonderful lady who has nursed 4 children. She started with a firm but small B. She is now a little less firm and a little smaller but still perky.

If she were larger she probably would be hanging with no muscle tone left. Smaller is better. My daughters are encouraged by me and there mother regarding the benefits of being petite.

Implants never (too hard), In Tahiti they are referred to as Pamplemouse (grapefruit) and not given a very high regard. We prefer natural.

I like'em petite. Rejoice in your petiteness. Don't listen to the US media. Those fake breasts only look good in those low cut dresses. They are not pleasant to the touch.

PhotoTane.

I visited a site about small breasts and one man said that his wife had small breasts and was insecure about them,(he wished she was not) then he said he preferred large breasts. His wife feels insecure because she knows how he thinks, and he should prefer his wifes small breasts than fantasizing about them being big, (because big is supposed to be better). This is not true, and appreciating her breasts however they are would make her feel so much better.

Diane

Speaking as a man who has always been drawn to petite women, I find it heart-breaking that there are so many girls and women for whom this quality is such a source of anxiety. I realize there are many factors that influence this: notions of Hollywood perfection, the media in general, schoolyard taunts ...and of course, perhaps behind most of these things, ranks of dumb-witted men!

Yes, we're all a little obsessed with body image, but then we're programmed by nature to respond to visual stimulus and to find certain features aesthetically or sexually attractive. But just as there is boundless diversity in our physical characteristics, so too is there in what each of us is likely to find attractive.

Without exception, every one of the photos that feature on this page depict perfectly proportioned, absolutely 100% feminine examples of the female form; they are a testament to the wonderful diversity of nature.

Yet it seems that men who appreciate women with small breasts are like a silent constituency, never vocal in our enthusiasm the way that the big is best contingent are, we've allowed them to continue setting this ridiculous agenda about the ideal body shape. There is a weird social pressure on men too, an automatic assumption that what we want to see on a woman's body are large breasts. In fact, for me, and many like me, quite the opposite is true; for us (if talking solely in terms of our sexual responses) it is the proportions of small-breasted women that stir our feelings. And of course that is entirely to be expected , nature wants us to find each other attractive, so just as there will be women with small breasts, naturally there will also be men who adore this quality about their appearance. So, finally, to all those men like me, I wish you'd speak up against this mad obsession with big-is-better, and maybe we can do something to make the small-breasted women of the world feel appreciated for the delightful contribution that theyre making to the physical beauty of the human race.

David

To all the lovely girls who are reading, more guys would rather be caressing someone they love, someone who loves them back than holding the breast of a girl who doesn't care about them. Any man who is serious about you, is just as happy with who you are, whether you are a A or DD or G. It doesn't matter. What matters more to a man is that the girl he has has the fortune of caressing, loves him for who he is.

Men can be turned on by a girl's breast. However a girl who is confident about herself regardless of her breast size has far more appeal, in terms of looks and sensuality, than a DD girl who still believes her breasts too small.

To every lady who thinks having bigger breast will imrpove your love life, here's my personal experience as a guy. A man who seriously loves you will love you for who you are first and foremost. So there is no need to be too concerned about the size of your breast. Chances are, the guy sitting next to you in the cinema or hugging you to sleep at night is more than happy with the size of your breasts. After all, bigger sized breast didn't guarantee Pamela Lee Anderson a happy future.

Takumi Ashahide

Small breasts are great. Large breasts are OK. Breast implants are terrible and should be avoided like the plague. Sexiness is determined by how the woman feels about herself, not breast size.

Ray

I am a man and I think that it's what is inside the woman that matters, all women are beautiful and whatever her breast size is, is irrelevant. Remember the old adage "more than a handful is wasted".

K R Debley

I fit into a size 36A and for a while I hated the size of my breasts. The breasts themselves weren't the issue but the fact that they weren't proportionate to the rest of my body. I am 5'3 and weigh 145 pounds. I'm not exactly petite, so my small breasts bothered me, especially in comparison with my wide shoulders and thighs. However, I soon figured that I couldn't do anything about my body shape and started to appreciate the pros. Hey, I still have curves, you know? They only thing I should be worried about is eating healthy, getting exercise, and working hard at school, and eventually I will become what I am intended to become. Breast implants sicken me; I couldn't ever imagine cut myself up in order to appeal to people I don't even know. To the 17 year old who said that she 4'10 and 88lbs that barely fits into a 32 A: you're only 17, why are there guys commenting on the shape of your breasts? Multiple boys, for that matter? I'm not making any assumptions, mind you, since I don't know you. I only mean to say that you have more to focus on in this time in your life than what "immature boys" think of you; you still have so much time to grow, inside and out. Once you focus on your personal goals and your own identity, guys who really appreciate who are you for you will appear in your life. You have so much time!! I think the true culprit here is the need to feel attractive when one's still practically a child! There should be no rush to grow up; TV and magazines have pushed teen beauty as well and it's awful. By the way, I am 17 years old myself and I am proud to say that I know my place in the world and whose opinions really matter. I only have a little bit of time before I has to assume the responsibilities of an adult and it's too overwhelming without creating issues with myself. The last thing I need is to worry about what some dude thinks of me. I know I still have much to learn.

Nicole

Small breasts are better than large size. Large hang down more. If you have a small cup size CHEER UP and be proud of yourself. I am a 61 year old male.

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Personally I love smaller breasts. To all women reading this don't worry about breast size because all breasts are beautiful.

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