Hi, I'm 19 years old. I have had two children. One is 1 and the other 2. I
breastfed both but not for long. My breast are very saggy and small. First off I wanted to know is there anything I can do that will help them grow ,
and are they done growing? Will they and can they grow? I'm about a small 34b small, and weigh about 115 pounds. I just want to know if I should continue to grow or if this is it? Thank you very much.
I have always been a small chested woman (10b) and have always dreamed of
having larger breasts trying every gimmick on the market.
Kindest Regards
Melissa
Most often women go back to their original pre-pregnancy size. However it doesn't always happen: some women end up with smaller breasts than pre-pregnancy, and a few with larger breasts. Also, the weight gain from the pregnancy might affect your breast size. So, I can't really tell how it goes with you.
Hello,
You are just fine and have developed normally. Your breasts probably just don't have very much fat in them since it sounds like you are skinny, and that can make them be fairly small. Maybe your mom has a little bit more fat all around her body (she has also been thru pregnancies, which can
affect one's breast size). Please see our page for small-breasted ladies.
Hey, I'm 12 years old, and got my period when I was 11. I have pubic hair
and all, but my breasts barely fit a 36 A. I'm in 7th grade, and all the
girls except about 3 have much larger breasts than me. I hate not being able
to wear the skimpy, revealing, low cut tops that everyone else in my classes
can wear. I'm also sick of boys not paying me any attention, or not wanting
to be seen with me by their friends, because of my small breasts. One time,
this boy made the comment, "Too bad you don't have tits, you'd probably be
pretty hot". Comments like that really hurt my feelings, and I'm sick of it!
I heard that you can get breasts implants when your 14, if you have the
money, and your mom signs for you. Is that true?
I hope you realize that this situation of boys not paying any attention
to you will probably pass. They are just so immature. It is normal to
have small breasts - not every woman can or will ever have B/C cup
breasts- there has and always will be some with A cup breasts.
So when those boys grow up a little, they should realize that.
Now, I don't think any reputable plastic surgeon would do implants at
age 14. Maybe you've heard some kind of rumor about it. Even your
breasts are still developing some.
I've been 14 for like 3 months now and I'm a 32/34c and everyone else in my family are all Bs, aunt and mom and grandma and cousins except one aunt is a DD. I don't want to get any bigger. I'm perfectly happy with me. I have a pooch and I want to lose about 3 to 5 pounds there but
my sister keeps saying since I haven't gained weight since 5th grade except for my boobs and I weigh 105, if I lose
any weight I'll lose my boobs too, and I really don't want to do that. I just want to lose my pooch. So I guess what I'm asking is, am I going to get bigger? And can I lose my pooch without losing my boobs?
thanks..., no bigger no smaller
If you lose weight, you will lose some fat from you breasts, but just
3-5 pounds won't make you lose your breasts completely. They might get
a little bit smaller but they won't disappear!
I do not know for sure if your breasts are still developing and growing. Normally, the developing continues for 2-3 years after a girl gets her period.
Hi, I came across your website amd couldn't find an answer to myself...
I got my period when I was 14... I'm small breasted, size 32A... I'm 20 now... and just recently, I've notice soreness in my breast... and notice
that they are growing... Is that normal? or why are they suddenly begining
to appear and feel bigger than the usual... Does that mean I am a late
bloomer?
Yes,that is perfectly normal. Some women's breasts do develop a little
more in their early twenties. The other possibility is that you're pregnant - or that it is due to a side effect from birth
control pills if you have recently started taking those.
Dear 007B, I have been concerned with my breast development
since I started my period (about three years ago). I am now 17 and I
have been wondering why they don't seem to be like all of my other
friends. Mine look similar to the hypoplastic breasts. The areola is
puffy and my nipples only become external when I'm cold. The breast
itself has really no shape, but it's not completely flat because of
my nipples. I know I really shouldn't worry about what they look like
but I find it hard to be any sort of intimate with guy due to the fact
it may lead to them seeing my breasts. What if they get grossed out?
Then I'm left in the dark... hurting. Do you know of a way for me to
overcome this fear? Sincerely, Concerned.
The breast size is not an issue for many men... but may be for some. Also, most men typically don't care that much about the
shape, nor about the nipple shape. See, they don't even necessarily know what women's breasts or nipples should look like - either that, or
they have seen lots of porn and think everyone's nipples and breasts look the same as the models'.
Anyway, if I was in this kind of situation, I would talk about this fear of
yours with the man before being intimate. And, by all means let him see this website and the breast gallery here, so you can find out if he understands much about how female breasts look like. So talking, talking beforehand might be the key.
I wanted to know if it's ok to pick out the hair on my breast. Will it hurt me in someway? I thought I read somewhere that it is not a good thing?
Don't pick, just cut with scissors close to skin.
MY DAUGHTER WILL BE FIVE YEARS OLD THIS YEAR. I BREAST FED HER ONLY FOR SIX MONTHS. I HAVE NOTICED ALL THIS TIME THAT I STILL HAVE BREAST MILK.
BUT HERE RECENTLY I HAVE NOTICED THAT MY NIPPLES HURT AND I'M LACTATING EVEN MORE NOW. IS THIS NORMAL? IS SOMETHING WRONG? I HAVEN'T MISSED A PERIOD, SO IT COULDN'T BE THAT I'M PREGNANT AGAIN.
The medical term for this is galactorrhea - you can search the internet for info. It can be a symptom of something more serious going on... See for example My breasts are leaking milk but I'm definitely not pregnant from NetDoctor.co.uk.
Hi, My name is Valerie and I'm 16 years old, and I have a few questions that nobody can seem to answer, here it goes... unfortunately I'm not a thin person and I have big hips and a big butt, sometimes I get the feeling that I look out of proportion because of that. I see my breasts and they fit in a C-cup but how come some of my other friends who have a C-cup there breasts appear to be bigger than mine?
This is probably because bra sizing does not work like people think it does. 30C does not have the same cup size as 34C or 38C. The C cup in 30C is smaller than the C-cup in 38C.
I am a lactating mother and my right breast has become 1" to 1.5" lengthier than the left one. How can I either increase the size of the left one or decrease the size of the right one? My size is 34B. Please do reply. Thank you.
This is simple in principle, but can be difficult in reality. You just need to nurse more on the smaller side, and less on the bigger side. Simple, right? The problem is that your child may object to this... Please see Lopsided! What can I do? article at Kellymom.com.
Hello. I am expecting my first child in 3 1/2 weeks and I have decided to give breastfeeding a try. I want to get to the store to buy a few nursing bras before the baby comes, but I am unsure what size to buy. Do you have any idea of how much larger my breasts will get once my milk comes in? Pre-pregnancy I was 36C, I am currently 38C. If you have any information for me to help in determining what size bras to purchase I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you!
Arleen
Your breast size now (during last semester) is probably pretty close to your breast size while nursing. When your milk comes in, you may end up engorged and even bigger, but that is temporary and lasts only a few days. For those days you can try to go without a bra. After that is over, your breasts will "get the hang of it" and only produce milk according to the demand, and your breast size is probably close to what it is now. After a few months of nursing, your breast size may even go down.
Does everyone's breasts disappear when you lay flat on your back or does it happen when you get older? Seems like mine have always disappeared and I hate it.
Mary
This would depend on your breast size. Big breasts won't 'disappear' and small breasts can seem to do so.
My daughter is 11 years old, and telling me that her breasts which are not developed, yet are hurting and feel like hard nodules. Is this normal? She is small for her age.
Ellen
Chances are that those are the breast buds. You should soon see them as "swollen" looking nipples that start protruding a little. It's normal for them to feel tender.
GREAT SITE! I was wondering if the nipples and areola ever go back to normal after breastfeeding. My child's feeding has caused me to have very long nipples and very dark areolas. Will they go back to normal soon or ever?
NAN
Actually the areola changes color during pregnancy, not during breastfeeding. The color will fade a little over time but will not be back to the color it was before pregnancy. Your nippleswon't look like they did before you got pregnant, either; however they may get somewhat smaller after weaning.
I'm 22 and never breastfed. I've noticed that my nipples (the very top of them) are slightly different color than the rest of my nipples (perhaps yellowish or so) is that normal? Also, am I supposed to see the opening on the nipple? Because I don't and I just want to make sure for when I'm pregnant that everything will be okay?
As far as the coloring on the nipple, I don't really know, but I assume it is normal. It is normal to not to see the tiny openings in the nipple (actually there are several openings in the nipple, not just one). They are tiny and not really visible until you get pregnant and then start nursing a child. So don't worry.
Hi, I'm a 16-year old girl. My breasts have been a C or D cup since I was in 7th grade. Is it normal for my back to hurt between my shoulder blades? I am only 5ft 2in. Also my left breast, I started to notice about a year ago, is larger than my right breast. From this and other website I have learned that is normal, but are there any concerns associated with this?
thank you everyone, concerned and confused
You don't have to worry if one breast is bigger than the other; it is quite common. The back pain could be caused by something totally different than your breasts. I hope you can check with a doctor.
Hi, I am 14 years old and I got my period when just before I turned 13. All my life I have wanted fairly large breasts. It bothers me very much that I still dont have boobs. I fit in to a 32 A cup... I fit into it pretty good so I am no "flat chested" and I do have a little bit of cleavage but it seems that my boobs do not stick out very far, it almost seems as if they maybe sagging. I don't know if they are or not but I'm worried that they are, it's like they are there but just not sticking out. What does this mean? Is there anything that I can eat or do to make my breasts larger with out having surgery? I have been made fun of for not having boobs for a very long time, I try not to let it bother me but it still does. So I wear padded bras that are too big for me and then I wear a cami over that (a tank top with a built in bra) and then I wear my shirt. It's embarrassing because a lot of people have noticed all the bra lines underneath my shirts but I can't stop doing it because then people will wonder, "Where did her boobs go?" I dont know what to do. All I want are boobs. I also noticed that I have no cleavage and my boobs are spread pretty far apart and don't really stick out. My nipples are almost a reddish color and most my friends' have a light brown or light pink. Does this mean anything? And what can I do to make my breasts a little larger? I liked reading all these girls' comments and letters because it helps me realize that I am not the only small breasted girl.
Kathy
Sounds like very normal breasts for the A cup size. They don't stick out since they are firm and 'perky' for now - the breast tissue is quite dense. That is normal for teenagers. When/if they start sagging more, they will then maybe 'stick out' a little more. This cleavage thing is just something American culture has made up that women's breast should supposedly have, but normal breasts without bras don't often have any cleavage unless they are fairly large or pushed together artificially by bras. So don't worry about that. The nipple color is fine, and it doesn't mean anything special.
So your breasts are fine. Try to learn to disregard any comments that immature teenagers might throw your way. It's not their business whether you wear a bra or not, or what kind. Please read also our page on small breasts.
Do you know where I can see a picture of "dimpled breasts"? I have read about that being a sign of cancer and would like to see if mine are dimpled.
carla
Perhaps you mean an inverted nipple.
May I first say that your site is wonderful... I am not exactly flat chested but am quite close to it; I actually am finally at a point where I am very comfortable with the set I was given, but I digress. My mother has told my sister and me that she was around my size (34A) up until her late twenties. She "thinks" she was about 28 when she finally developed into her current size which is a 36 or 38C (she didnt have her first child until she was 33). So my question is, is it even possible to develop that late? The women on both sides of my family are fairly large breasted (Cs and Ds) until you hit my generation, then my two sisters and myself are all small. My 20 year old sister is very self-concious and my older sister got tired of being called "Peanut" and got implants at 26. I am 22 and am frankly just curious. If you have ever heard of anyone developing this late in life I would be interested to hear about it.
charis
Haven't heard of it happening but if your mom did, then fine! And if other readers know something about late breast development, send your comments in.
Hello. I am 20 years old and have asymmetrical breasts. They have always been this way, and it has always bothered me. My mother has and still continues to tell me that I am not done developing yet, but at my age I find it hard to believe. My right breast is fine, but the left is quite a bit smaller. The nipple is fully formed, but it is atleast 1x smaller than my right, not only that but it is often sensitive or sore (but there aren't any lumps). My questions are: is there a chance that it may develop more, and is the aching normal?
Well, breasts DO continue to develop in SOME girls up till about 21-22 years of age. So it is possible. The aching you mention could be due to the breast still developing. It is normal for breasts to be sore just before your period, or when they are growing/developing. If you feel the soreness is not for these reasons, please see a doctor.
Is there any surgery to reduce the size of a areola? Although I feel better with my large ones after seeing this web site I still not happy and feel very self concious. xxx
alicia sweet
It is understandable to feel self-conscious about the size of your areola... I hope you visited our breast gallery page to see the enormous variety there is even in areola size. My guess is, surgeons can do it, but you'd have to ask them to know for sure.
I am 14 and almost a C up. I am only 5' 1" and I think I have stopped growing. My boobs came when I was 9 and I haven't changed since. Am I going to be short and a 34B for life? It really hurts me because most girls in my freshman class are sooooooo much bigger than me. Please help.
niya
It sounds like your main growth spurt is over by now. Your final height is largely determined by your genes. It is just like with any physical feature: some people are shorter and some are taller, and the best is not to worry about it. Similarly with your breasts, they are probably their final size now.
I am 21 years old and am eight months pregnant. I have been considering breastfeeding but have heard so many myths. Is it true that breastfeeding makes your breasts smaller?
lisa
Hello Lisa,
You have probably noticed that during pregnancy, your breasts have grown in size... what has happened INSIDE is that a lot of the fat has gone, and your breasts are now filled with ducts and milk-making cells (alveoli). They are ready for breastfeeding and already your breasts are making the wonderful first milk called colostrum. Colostrum is made in very small quantities and is kind of like super-food or super-milk for the very first days of the baby, filled with antibodies and other special substances. It helps the baby's immunity system. And colostrum acts as a laxative to purge the baby's intestines from waste that has collected there during pregnancy. Formula does not have that effect. Then in a few days breasts start making mature milk which has lots more fat and is made in copious quantites compared to colostrum.
Anyway, this elaborate milk-making apparatus inside your breasts is going to shrink whenever you don't use it anymore. It is at that point that breasts will get smaller - for a while. Then after a while fat again gets deposited in there, and so your breasts will probably end up back to pre-pregnancy size.
So
1) If you do not breastfeed at all, then you first have to deal with trying to dry the milk production up, and your breasts will start shrinking soon after giving birth since they perceive the milk is not needed. So they will shrink first, and then over time get back to pre-pregnancy size.
2) If you do breastfeed, your breasts will stay in this enlarged size that they are now until your wean (partially or completely). Then at weaning they will get smaller. If the weaning is abrupt, they will abruptly shrink (some call it "empty balloon look") and over time get back to pre-pregnancy size. If the weaning is gradual, the breasts will just gradually decrease in size without going through the emptyish balloon stage.
So it's not technically breastfeeding that makes your breasts smaller - weaning does, and if you don't breastfeed at all, it is in a sense 'weaning before ever starting'.
As far as breastfeeding goes, I encourage you to visit
www.breastfeeding.com and read some kind of book about breastfeeding. Or check our breastfeeding resources page for many more breastfeeding supportive websites.
Hello. I'm just about 16 years old (in 3 months). And I feel that my nipples haven't developed right. The rest of my breast seems normal, but the nipple looks like it's half developed. Also, the darker skin surrounding the nipple has small bumps on it. I'm not sure if this is normal (...I don't usually see many boobs). Also, I got my period in the 8th grade. And for the first few years or so, it was on track and everything. But this past year it's been all messed up. I get it every few months, and it only lasts for a few days. What's going on with my body?! Thanks,
Sara
Hello Sara,
The darker skin is called the areola. The bumps on your areola are called Montgomery glands. They produce a fluid that lubricates the areola and nipple. The nipple has probably developed just fine. Some teenagers have flat nipples that become erect when cold or stimulated. Try to rub your nipple and see if it 'wrinkles up' and becomes erect. See also our Nipple gallery page.
Your period is something to be concerned about. You may have some sort of hormonal disorder going on. One possibility is polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS). Other possibilities are being underweight, heavy exercise, stress, thyroid problems - and there are yet more. Please see Oligomenorrhea for more information, and consider seeing a doctor.
My ten-year old daughter recently noticed that she is beginning to develop a breast on only one side. She is very concerned about this- her 34-year old aunt recently underwent a mastectomy and reconstructive surgery because of a lump she had on one side. Consequently, my daughter is associating her "lump" with that of her aunts. Is it normal for one side to develop before the other? How soon after should the other begin to develop? I am trying to reassure her as much as possible that this is NOT cancer. Any help you can provide is greatly appreciated.
Brooke Allen
This is perfectly normal. The lump is almost 100% surely a developing breast bud. It is very common for one side to develop before the other, and in fact, about 40-50% of women have some degree of asymmetry in their breasts anyway. Timewise, it's normal for there to be a 6-month delay before the other one starts growing.
When I was about 12 or 13, I had an incident by where my cousin grabbed both of my breasts from behind me. She grabbed me so hard that it took my breath away. Today, I am an adult woman and I have inverted nipples. In my search to understand why this occurred, I have always wondered if this incident could of caused this. I have heard that damage to the nipple bud can cause it to be inverted. I would appreciate knowing. My email is
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