Nipple concerns and a gallery!
This article explains some common nipple concerns and displays images of normal nipples. It has these sections:
Nipple shape worries
Many women worry if their nipple looks funny or odd or is inverted. Some worry about hair, or those 'bumps', or the shape or the size. It's been amazing to observe how MUCH women indeed angst over these things - mostly in vain...
...because there is enormous variation in nipple and areola size and shape among normal women! For example, areola size and color varies with women. Also, areola color can appear darker when it's hot because of increased circulation, just like your skin appears redder when the blood vessels dilate near the skin in hot weather.
Bumps on areola
If you worry about those 'funny bumps' on the areola, those are supposed to be there; they are called Montgomery glands or areolar skin glands. Their function is partially unknown, but scientists suppose they secrete a liquid that lubricates the nipple/areola area.
These Montgomery glands can be about unnoticeable, OR stand out as bumps on the areola. They often become more prominent during pregnancy. Also, it appears they are white in some women.
Some women have squeezed them and can get a white substance out, but please do NOT squeeze them because that causes them to become infected.
In one study, it was noted that women with more areolar glands had better or more optimal breastfeeding start after delivery. They also noted that the glands were seen in virtually all women in the study but with great interindividual variations; their areolar distribution was nonrandom, and about 1/5 of the women had glands giving off a secretion (this is about women who have just given birth).
Puffy or flat nipples
If your nipples are 'puffy' and not constantly erect they are called flat nipples. That is perfectly normal too, and fairly common among teens. Typically the nipple "sticks out" (becomes erect) when stimulated by cold, clothing, or rubbing.
This puffy or flat appearance may stay as it is until a woman becomes pregnant. For most women with flat nipples, the nipples evert (poke out) during pregnancy as the elasticity of the skin changes. Even if not, a full-term baby can usually suck out a flat nipple.
Also it's a total misconception that all females get erect nipples in sexual activity like men get an erect penis... not every woman does. Nipples are not to be compared to penises. The organ in females that corresponds to the male penis is clitoris, and clitoris can and does become erect (it is just harder to notice).
My nipples are puffy, well like the outside is, I guess you can say, but like my nipple does not pop out at all! Unless it's cold. Which really bothers me because guys are in love with nipples & what if one day a guy wants to suck on mine & he can't because they aren't out!
When it comes to babies, babies don't suck on nipples—they take in a big mouthful. It's not the nipple that receives the sucking action—it's the areola that they "suck" and the nipple just releases the milk.
An illustration tells this better than words. The nipple is completely inside the mouth, not visible from outside. Babies don't "nibble" on nipples. The nipple looks long because it does get stretched when nursing... but that does not hurt (I know, I have nursed 3 babies). Also, women's nipples do get larger during pregnancy.
Now, I know some guys do like to suck on women's nipples. But some won't. Keep in mind also that in a relationship it's NOT only us women trying to do everything what men might fancy or like -- YOU also have the right to tell what you like sexually, and if you happen not to like your nipples sucked, then your partner definitely should take that into account.
A sexual relationship works when both understand what the other partner likes. Most men definitely are concerned about "satisfying" their woman -- in other words taking into account what she likes and doesn't like.
Erect nipples poking through clothing
In some women, the nipples stay erect (stick out) all the time, and can easily be seen through clothing. If this bothers you, there exist "nipple covers" - little skin-colored round things made of silicone that attach to the skin and can hide the nipples from being seen. Search for "silicone nipple covers" online, or ask for them in a bra store.
"Hard nipples" - areola or nipple skin
Someone once wrote to us: "...when I get really cold, or get goosebumbs all over my body, the whole thing really scrunches up, like, my entire areola scrunches itself up into a wrinkled little mound. It looks really weird and ugly, and I haven't ever seen other people's breasts do it. What is wrong with my areola/nipples??"
Well, nothing is wrong. This is what my areola does, too. It is a normal reaction to the coldness, to irritation, or to stimulation. The little muscles in the areola do a goosebump thing similar to what your other skin does. People often call this phenomenon "hard nipples".
Also note that the skin on areola has less feeling or sensation than other areas of your body. If the areola was very sensitive, then breastfeeding would probably be quite uncomfortable because the baby pulls and tugs it! The nipples are sensitive, but the sensitivity changes with hormonal changes, such as with the mestrual cycle or pregnancy. Also, this varies among individuals.
The skin on the nipple and areola can also be flaky or scaly, with little scales of skin coming off. This is likely just dry skin or eczema (far more likely). It could also be a symptom of Paget's disease (rare).
An inverted nipple
An inverted nipple is 'turned inside' instead of pointing outside. It appears like a indentation in the middle of the areola.
It is possible to "coach" the inverted nipple out so it becomes an 'outie' and everts.
If a nipple that was an "outie" suddenly inverts, this along other symptoms such as itching and pain may be a sign of inflammatory breast cancer.
We've made a separate page about inverted nipples where you can read more.
Nipple piercing has become more and more popular in recent years. Nipple piercing procedure has the risk of infection, mastitis (serious breast infection), scarring, jewelry rejection, boils, risk of HIV or hepatitis transmission (from unsterilized equipment), and more (it has even led to a partial mastectomy).
The jewelry may also cause problems while wearing it because clothing you wear can catch it.
As far as breastfeeding and nipple piercing is concerned, you can breastfeed as long as you don't have a buildup of internal or external scar tissue. If you do, or if the piercing became infected during the healing process, you may have a problem with milk flow. Most moms with pierced nipples can breastfeed fine. They should just remove the jewelry while breastfeeding.
These pictures are here to let you see some of the normal variations in nipple shape and areola size/shape. There are lots of variations as you can see! The photos below are by volunteers.
It said that after a month putting toothpaste on your niple it will grow up one cup size. I put it on before going to bed but when i wake up its all on my clothes because i dont sleep with a bra on. So will it really help?
THE INTERNET is an incredible source of LIES and SCAMS. No, toothpaste on nipples won't help. Total silliness!
I'm 17 & I've never been to self conscious about my nipples until my previous boyfriend said something about "pepperoni nipples". He has never seen mine & now I feel like I might have them, unfortunately I don't know what they are or what they look like. He stated that they were "really big nipples". Now I feel very self conscious & I don't know what too do or who to talk to. /:
I think what they mean by that expression is not the nipple... but the AREOLA being as large as a slice of pepperoni. Areola is the darkened area around the nipple but not the nipple itself.
I don't think that is even very big... many many women have their areola the size of pepperoni slice, and often even larger! Keep in mind, areola size increases in pregnancy so tons of women have large areolas! Look again at our gallery on this page... Yours are most definitely normal too, no matter what their size.